How to Manage Elderly Parent Care from Abroad: A Complete Guide
Living abroad while your aging parents are in Pakistan doesn't mean you can't provide excellent care. Here's everything you need to know.
Defaris is your dedicated on-ground support system in Pakistan. We visit, assist, coordinate, and report — so you can live abroad with complete peace of mind.
Complete on-ground support for your loved ones in Pakistan.
From daily check-ins to emergency coordination — we handle everything so your family gets the care and attention they deserve.
Regular in-person visits to check on your parents and family members, ensuring they're comfortable, safe, and well taken care of.
Learn More →Round-the-clock emergency coordination and rapid response support when your family needs immediate help — available 24/7.
Learn More →Professional hospital visit support, appointment scheduling, doctor liaison, and medication management — we take care of it all.
Learn More →We handle shopping, grocery runs, and everyday errands so your parents never have to worry about daily necessities.
Learn More →Utility bills, rent, PTCL, gas, electricity — we ensure timely payments are made so your family faces zero disruptions.
Learn More →Prescription collection, medicine delivery, and pharmacy coordination — ensuring your loved ones never miss their medication.
Learn More →We understand the anxiety of being thousands of miles away from your parents. Defaris was founded specifically to bridge that gap — providing reliable, compassionate, and professional on-ground support in Pakistan.
All our care coordinators are background-checked, professionally trained, and deeply empathetic individuals committed to your family's wellbeing.
Receive comprehensive written and photographic status reports monthly, with real-time updates on any important developments.
Our emergency line is always active. No matter the time or situation, our team responds within 2 hours to any crisis.
We operate with full transparency, respect your family's privacy, and maintain strict data security standards at all times.
Enroll in minutes and have your family cared for within 48 hours. Our streamlined onboarding process makes it simple.
Select the care plan that best fits your family's needs — Basic Support or Premium Care. Both include dedicated coordinators.
Provide your family's information, address, specific requirements, and any medical or special considerations through our secure form.
We assign a dedicated care coordinator who will introduce themselves to your family and begin building a relationship of trust.
Sit back with peace of mind. Receive regular updates, reports, and notifications. We handle everything so you don't have to worry.
Every overseas Pakistani I've spoken to carries the same fear — they worry about their parents back home. Defaris was born from that pain. We exist to replace anxiety with assurance, distance with care, and worry with peace of mind.
Founder & CEO — Defaris
Mr Haroon Rasheed is a visionary entrepreneur and social innovator based in Lahore, Pakistan. With a deep understanding of the emotional challenges faced by overseas Pakistanis, he founded Defaris to create a professional, reliable, and compassionate care coordination system that bridges the distance between families separated by borders.
Under his leadership, Defaris has grown into Pakistan's most trusted family care platform — serving hundreds of families across 20+ countries with dedication, empathy, and professionalism.
Real stories from real families who trust Defaris to care for their loved ones back home in Pakistan.
Defaris has genuinely changed my life. I live in the UK and always worried about my parents in Lahore. Now, I get weekly updates, photos, and know they're being checked on regularly. Absolutely worth every penny.
My father had a medical emergency and Defaris's team was there within 90 minutes. They coordinated the hospital admission, updated me in real-time, and stayed with my father until family arrived. Truly extraordinary service.
I was skeptical at first, but after 6 months with Defaris, I'm a believer. Their care coordinator visits my mother every week, helps with groceries and medicines, and sends me detailed reports. My mother actually looks forward to the visits!
4.9/5 average rating from 500+ verified family reviews
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